Anne:
I know. You're right. It sounds like it should definitely be her. When I ordered the entry it was listed as Balfron, but the entry was as I wrote.
Anyway, I dont have a birth or death entry for her, and in James McAthurs' death entry he was listed as unmarried. What I do have are census entries: 1841 @ Buchlyvie, Kippen - Mary McFarlen, 50, not born Stirling. 1851 @ Kippen - Mary McFarlane, 55, born Glasgow. 1861 - Mary McFarlane, 64, born Glasgow. (Again, these were all provided by an RC member). I assumed that she died in Kippen because of the history of census entries and that she had grandchildren living with her each year.
And that's all I have thus far. Perhaps I should order one or all of these years to verify and maybe see if there is more information to be had...
Thanks again, Anne.