If anyone is still viewing this, can you check if either of the the 1841 census or the 1851 census provide an address for Mary McFarlen/McFarlane?
In my 1861 census, she is listed at living at #11________, Kippen, Stirlingshire. This is the only census I am certain of, so if I can get addresses to match (or even just the number), I can go from there.
Thank you.
McCann