WOW!!!
Very Quickly, on my way out the door......the "Baltic" manifest from 1910 identified the 130 W 57th address as the Metropolitan Club, a private, membership men's club. From the notes on the 2nd page of the manifest, I assumed the HE Aitkin mentioned was his employer/boss.
WFD both a butler and a farmer!! In 1917 he's in Maine Farming w/ Ellen and in 1920 he's in Nassau Co., w/ Ellen being a butler. And then a long career around the world w/ Violet as a Butler to the wealthy. Creative guy!!! An international man of mystery ??
Also, his naturalization in 1918 (Feb 14, I think) gave the 57th St address too.
Darn! If I wasn't leaving on vacation, I'd be delving into who is Violet Tarling ?? And if Ellen died or they were never married at all !! or is the same person as Violet??
I'm sure you have it all figured out when I get back! LOL!
Erato, looks like you've got another long day of research ahead of you !!
lissa

Erato, just saw your last message before sending this, they often registered older men for the war. I've seen registrations for men in their 50-60's!!! so 43 would not be out of the question at all.
Parallel universe or did he have reason (other than bigamy in England) to be a illusive ?? You've all seen the Julia Child and the OCS story recently
