in 1851 at drayton parston bucks
Thomas baldom 53 born oxon kingsey
mariah smith 45 mate broughton northants
ann, sinderella 18, frampton 19, thomas 10, riley 8, martha5, mary5, sarah 2
So Thomas wife mariah is a smith, so could be related to rhoda.....
also in 1851 stokenchurch oxon,
lewis beldom unm 35 with mother rice beldom 74 and providence hearn niece 22