Sorry about this, I have been actively researching the Betchleys on both the Sussex & Surrey sides of Rootschat, and although I am most grateful for the feedback, the question that is uppermost in my mind has yet to be answered.
Did my James transported for 14 years to Taz from East Grinstead in 1819 and reported to have died out there in 1840, somehow return to be in Croydon in time for the birth of his first child in 1837 and still be there to be included on the 1841 - 1881 censuses?
I now realise that a new tack is called for so I am looking for his marriage to Elizabeth Esther something or other, from Chelsham circa 1836, which could have been in Chelsham where she was born.
Alternatively, (and this may prove more difficult) I am also looking for the baptism of an Elizabeth Esther something or other in the Chelsham records around 1809. Sorry but I have no idea whether Chelsham was a small or large parish in 1809.
Too much to ask I know, but perhaps some kind Rootschatter out there will respond to the challenge and have a go.
Roy G