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Offline Willow 4873

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Re: My sister doesn`t want me to do the family history.
« Reply #81 on: Monday 18 August 08 00:01 BST (UK) »
Thats the attitude Johngirl!

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Re: My sister doesn`t want me to do the family history.
« Reply #82 on: Monday 18 August 08 07:33 BST (UK) »
Re: the message on the fridge magnet – isn’t there an “update” to it? Like: “Relatives are forced upon us; thank goodness we can choose our friends”. 

Think I’ll put that across the front of the fridge - unfortunately, the Relatives it applies to won’t see it!  ;D

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Re: My sister doesn`t want me to do the family history.
« Reply #83 on: Monday 18 August 08 09:58 BST (UK) »
Thats true John

Maybe I should post them one lol

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Re: My sister doesn`t want me to do the family history.
« Reply #84 on: Wednesday 22 October 08 16:06 BST (UK) »
Some people are just too unimaginative to be able to understand why anyone would be interested in family history.  I remember mentioning something to a friend once, just in passing, about my hobby, and she just stared at me, brow furrowed, mouth open, and asked me why on earth I would be interested in my ancestors? I pointed out that a very high number of people in this country are into family history but her "you freak!" expression didn't fade. 

Many years ago, on my mother's side, an uncle by marriage warned me to keep out of family history, saying "You might find out something you don't like."  I told him I couldn't imagine anything that could upset me and I intended to carry on with it.   On my Dad's side, my grandmother and great-grandmother were as helpful as they could be, giving me details and information, although my dear grandmother did neglect to mention that she had a box of old documents including certificates stashed away, even though every time I received a new certificate from the GRO she would look at it with much interest and confirm she had known some of the information on it!

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Re: My sister doesn`t want me to do the family history.
« Reply #85 on: Wednesday 22 October 08 16:31 BST (UK) »
Hi,
    as anyone else come across members of your family objecting to you doing the family history. My sister has told me in no uncertain terms that by me doing the family history it is upsetting the memory of my mother. I put my family tree on Ancestry where only people who I invite can view it. I put photos of my mother and father [who is also deceased] onto my family tree site [only peolpe I invite can see them] and my sister went ballistic. What do others think I should do. Keep going with my research or bow down to my sister and just scrap the lot.

        Johngirl ??? ??? ???
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Re: My sister doesn`t want me to do the family history.
« Reply #86 on: Wednesday 22 October 08 16:35 BST (UK) »
I do think that its because you put all information on ancestry no site is secure so I understand how your sister feels.  I have been doing my tree for two years all by hand on a roll of lining wallpaper!!! I have tried several family tree software but haven't found one that lets you put all information on ie. divorces, occupations, extra info so by hand is very flexible.  Good luck with your research.
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Re: My sister doesn`t want me to do the family history.
« Reply #87 on: Wednesday 22 October 08 16:43 BST (UK) »
Bishenbertie

Are you only putting your direct line on your roll of lining wallpaper?  There's no way my tree would fit, as I research my tree sideways too.

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Re: My sister doesn`t want me to do the family history.
« Reply #88 on: Wednesday 22 October 08 17:00 BST (UK) »
I am cascading the tree on the lining wallpaper.  The art is to leave several feet at the start of the paper unlike my first attempt when I started at the beginning of the roll and soon ran out of room.  At the moment I haven't gone back further than 1795 and the tree is now 8' wide so many family members.  It is probably easier for those who only want to do a direct line tree but I like the flexibility and the family party you have when everyone wants to see how its getting on. 
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Re: My sister doesn`t want me to do the family history.
« Reply #89 on: Wednesday 22 October 08 18:07 BST (UK) »
MrsLizzy, I hope you found the box! ::)
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