Hi Poppyann. I've also looked into the Charles and William Goldings and have this:
Charles William b 1852 married Sarah Ann Luck 1876. They had many children inc Kenneth Harold (my line) b 1897. Charles has no father on his birth cert of which I have a copy. Mother Mary b 1834 d 1912 (her parents Richard Golding 1800 and Judith Forward).
Mary married William Wells in 1854. Charles William living with them 1861 (surname Wells) but with his Aunt Olive (Olivia) in 1871. In 1881 he and wife/children living Seacot Heath, Etchingham and in 1891 Flimwell.
There is also a Charles Golding b 1832 married Sarah Ann Oliver in 1856 (brother to Olive and Mary). His mother Judith now a widow is living with him Hawkhurt Road, Ticehurst. In 1891 he's married to Flora with children Fannie, Flora and Charles living Sunnybank, Ticehurst. Hope this clears things up.