Can I make a small confession here!

That's the wrong one

I thought I was looking at the 1861 census but I wasn't I was looking at the 1871, think its time for bed

which means that Charles was only born 1863

However I found on findmypast
on the 1861 I swear!
RG9 572 132 7
2 Forge Cottages, London Road, Lamberhurst, Kent (Ticehurst registration district)
Richard Golding, 45, Ag Lab, born Ticehurst
Sarah Golding, 44 born Ticehurst
Samuel Golding, 14, Ag Lab born Lamberhurst
Walter Golding, 12, scholar born Lamberhurst
William Golding, 10, scholar born Lamberhurst
Mary Golding, 5 shcolar born Lamberhurst
Very very sorry
Kerry