i should have done an update before now,apologises.
the john and annie maguire(nee fox) that are buried in waikaraka cemetary are the ones that i was after

i got the death cert printout for annie and her parents names confirmed it. "where died" was listed as ponsonby.
the cert said that annie had been in new zealand for 23 years so she arrived on the doric in 1885. the anne that was listed arriving on the langstone in1883 must have been her daughter travelling with john,father,and a brother.
all the names that jorose found on post#3 match the children of annie and john that i have found out about, from this side of the world,except for rose who seems to have been left out! the one child that was left behind in ireland was kevinb's great grandmother who married william boyle,the mary maguire listed arriving on the doric was probably the same mary who was god-parent to one of the children.
i hope this all makes sense!
i found out,thanks to althea,that john maguire was living on the ponsonby road in 1892 which tallies with where annie died,though it looks like a fair distance to waikaraka cemetery!
i would like to say thanks to jorose, mk2 and mare who helped me out.
a special thanks to mare, who is an absolute gem

the only thing that would make this perfect would be if someone posted saying "hi, i'm descended from..."! you never know

tony