Ahhh at last I have been able to get to a comp !!!!!!! I have been travelling.
Thanks again for your info and thoughts.
I certainly haven't had found John in the 1851..would be handy if he could be found then.
I suspect I will have to get that Sarah Lister death cert.. as it will always bug me, I have trouble leaving stones un turned....Been thinking if she was the 'right' Sarah, John didn't waste anytime remarrying. It also bothers me how William Henry has disappeared.
Ta muchly again
Eds