Thanks Karenlee , Dollylee and Ruskie, All your hard work has given me a lot to go on. I went to the Ontario Cemeteries website and was able to download pictures and records for Pine Grove Cemetery , Cemetery Road at St Fillan's Road C10 L20 Beckwith Township Lanark County Ontario for:
John Beaton 1861-1955 and wife Amelia Thurlow 1865-1922
John Edward Beaton 1914-1998 and his wife Helen E.E. McDiarmid ( there are lots of these McDiarmids in this region hence I guess the middle name for Howard Mac in my first post and so Howard Thurlow, son of Jon and Amelia, may have had an additional name or there is another Howard too! I wonder whether John Edward and Helen had a son called Howard McDiarmid Beaton)
William Lorne Moffatt 1897?-194? and Elizabeth Beaton 18?8- 1958? (dates are quite obliterated.
I am still looking for the graves of John Beaton and Janet Paton.
The hit by Dollylee on Patons and Baldwin, and the Beaton's and Margaret Paton in the 1841 Scotland census is an excellent lead....George may well be the unfortunate child to look for in Canadian records. I suspect that John was born on the Cape during his father's travels but the enumerator just kept the record simple but false.
I would love to contact Darlene Jones.....who probably has researched most of this.
Now I have to cut the grass.......talk later. Best wishes, Lumber-Jack