Please don't be sorry. The James you found is the James I want. I found him in 1901, 1891, 1881. Then in 1871 he turns up as a 10 year old grandson of Joseph Cook. I was hoping to sort out his parents. Lee found the Grand Dad's kids so I started working from the Grand Dad end. I noticed that Joseph only seemed to have one son. That son was named James. If your not confused by all this, I sure am.

As I figure it Young men get married at or after 21years of age. I took the son (James) of Joseph worked out the age and did a search give or take a few years. That was how I got the James in the FreeBMD.
But you maybe very right Poole, Goole and faded pages are making it all a bit difficult.
Yes not it is time for me to try to sleep also. I'm in the USA and it is hot here also.
Thanks for your help and interest.
Bonnie
I must have been sleepy I thought I posted this late last night