Hi Joanmarie,
I am unsure as to if you still use this website or not, 2 years after you were on your quest for the Hoey roots. But I think you and I are related!
My father is a Hoey, Louis S. Hoey III. And I live in Pennsylvania as well, in King of Prussia.
My Great Grandmom Hoey, Helen C. Hoey, lived to be 105! Could we be talking about the same family? I recently discovered that my dad's generation of names came from James Urban Hoey and Margaret McCassin. (I only discovered this after I got a few awesome responses from a message I posted on ancestry.com

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My fathers entire side to his family lives in Pennsylvania. He has an older brother and sister, as well as 3 younger brothers and one sister. It is possible one of these Hoey's live close to you if you are in PA!
It's so crazy that our last name is so popular! Take care!