Hi again.
Splitting this for simplicity.
Another couple of thoughts about cost.
When I was researching a friend's WW1 family, and looking for more details for one feasible entry on the CWGC Roll of Honour, I rang CWGC and had quite an intyeresting conversation.
The lady said that there would be a choice for any war casualties (or their families at least), as to whether they were buried where they fell or were returned home when it was feasible. I can't remember the details, but it seemed to apply to Irish dying of wounds in England, so presumably the other way round from Cobh to England.
We didn't discuss who paid or whether it was only for the military.
Another thought. A couple of times recently I've had conversations about funerals which took place considerably later and WW!, and basically it was another world.
For most people, they had to get the deceased from where they died to the burial site, themselves, by carrrying, train etc. So if there was a long journey, they simply travelled with the deceased.
No niceties or fancy arrangements and privacy. So presumably if there were family coming back to Britain, the cost would be no more than the cost of their own fare.
A daunting thought, but in keeping with most of WW1 I guess.
Best wishes
Emms