I'm following this thread again with a great deal of interest because of my connection to the Sives family. My 3xg grandmother was a Sives b1798 and I think I have the line going back to mid 17th C.
I'm actually going through to East Lothian next week for a couple of days, and top of my to do list is visit cemeteries and churchyards in and around Dirleton, Athelstaneford, East Fortune, Prestonkirk etc.
The map below is a very rough draft of the places I intend to try and visit over the 2 days. I need to plan it slightly better before next week - have only just this morning made arrangements to go.
Dave
PS - I'd still really like to find some other living descendant(s) of the Sives family that have taken a DNA test. I suspect any Sives DNA I have inherited will be minimal, but it might be enough to get a small match with someone and help me map which parts of the DNA segments are shared.