Hi Clint,
Thanks for the post. It is helpful and isn't confusing. It is all consistent with the information that I believe that we have previously shared (and also with Sharon). I didn't have the information about Robert Bodle.
I can answer your question about Grace Bodle. Her full name was Mary Ann Grace Elizabeth Bodle and was born in 1862 in Templemore, Ireland. She was George Edward Bodle's sister. I don't know when or why she arrived in New Zealand but one can speculate that she emigrated to New Zealand since all of her siblings had emigrated to New Zealand or had died. In 1871, whe was living with her Uncle and Aunt (William and Priscilla Bodle). Priscilla died in 1873 and William remarried in 1874. Perhaps those events had something to do with her ultimate emigration to New Zealand.
Regards
Mark