Hi Lea,
You get lots of help on this site, it's great I am glad to have been of help. I don't want to confuse you any more than I am confused with these families. I have just realised that in fact Richard Swales was the first cousin of Lavinia Stephenson, the mother of Elizabeth Swales.

Sorry for misleading you. They were cousins though. Afraid confusion reigns sometimes and just have to move onto something else to clear the head!!!!!
Christiana Stephenson's baptism c1780 has never been confirmed, a big mystery. However it is known she was the daughter of Alexander Stephenson a potter of Blackwell Durham. This is in the parish records for the birth of Hannah Swales her daughter, and Alexander was the son of Alexander Stephenson of London, Wine Cooper.
I have a Tree on Ancestry with all this on it and some other people on this site also have Trees there from which you can find lots of information.
My great grandmother was Christiana Swales bn Pickering 1871 and my mother told me that the Swales and Stephensons were all marrying cousins, but I had no idea how extensive that was until I started my Tree.
Regards Val