I couldn't see Joseph, Mary & Frederick in any census later than 1851 when I looked before
http://www.rootschat.com/forum/index.php/topic,287996.0.htmlI'm only going on info I was given by other people so as you say that death date of Joseph snr in 1816 could very well be incorrect
The problem with using other's research as a base is that you have to be cautious as to what is correct. If people are willing to share their resources ie. proof with you then that is fine but otherwise it needs to be treated with caution. For instance, I have seen a number of postings/trees on the web for this family and one tree has a chap dying aged about 120, another has Joseph & Sophia listed as going to Australia in 1838 yet some of their children born in the 1840s in England etc. etc.. - just two instances of where something is clearly wrong in the research

One thing they tend to agree on is that Joseph AUSTEN died 1890 in the Grafton district of New South Wales. If this is correct then his death certificate has his parents listed as Joseph and
Sophia http://www.bdm.nsw.gov.au/familyHistory/search.htmThere is mention somewhere that Joseph is buried in a private grave still owned by the AUSTEN family - are there any other relatives buried there that may indicate others going out to Australia too

Some of the research I have seen on the web stops with the marriage of Joseph and Sophia (1838) which, I suspect, is because they are unsure of his origins.
As I mentioned before, there is only one Joseph AUSTEN marriage to a Mary around the time frame and in the area you are looking at ie. early 1800s and that is to Joseph AUSTEN and Mary WALKER in Tenterden. What if they are the couple in the 1841 and 1851 census in Rolvenden and what if the younger Joseph in Rolvenden 1841 and 1851 is their son b1816

I would suggest asking your fellow researchers a few questions ie. how do they know that "your" Joseph was born in Rolvenden 1816 and how do they know that his parents were Joseph AUSTEN and Mary B WALKER and how do they know that this Mary WALKER was born in Brenchley and not Tenterden? I do hope you can get some answers so we can try and help you sort some of this out.
Casalguidi
