Hello Frank.
Went to Arles but found none of the names you are looking for.
Names on headstones in Arles are;
Thomas Bambrick, Milltown, died 25/129
Wife; Mary, died, 8/9/31
Same headstone;
Richard;30/6/18
Thomas; 16/8/62
Michael; 22/7/69
Anastasia; 4/11/69
Mary; 12/2/84
Elizabeth; 12/5/86
Seperate headstone;
Erected by Joseph in memory of his parents, brothers, Sisters.
Joseph died; 26/nov/81
Down the road a few miles in Ballyninan Cementary I found;
William; 29/4/32 aged 64
Daughter; Mary 26/oct/75 aged 65
Grandchildern; Kathleen
William; died young
Daughter; sarah 18/12/84 aged 54
William (son) 13 /april/80 aged 78
Thats all for now, I will keep in touch
Jack