Hi Viv, I can confirm that we are descended from the same line, i.e. Abraham b. 1789/90 x Ann Thornton, Abraham b. 1812 x Annie Payne. My line from there is from the youngest son, Henry William b. 1864 x Louisa Ann Rielly. I have your line from there as Abraham James x Mary Anne Bouwer, Abraham Thomas x Eileen Grace Gardner, then their daughter Edna Ann Wild x Arthur Lewis. I have your email address and will send you an invite to the Zoompast tree.
As far as the Oldham family is concerned, I have never been able to pinpoint just exactly which Abraham he was. There were4 or 5 possible births in the timeframe 1788-1790, but I believe there was a story circulating in the family about an old family bible where his parents were listed as James and Mally - so I have opted for this. Watch out for the invite - sign in and you will see a search box at the top lefthand corner of the page - just click on that and put in the name of the person you wish to view and it will "zoom" to that bit of the family. I will make you the "root" of the family, so you will go straight into the part you want to see. There are more than 9000 people on the database!