I found quite a lot about Ashley Hall (not Castle), which existed in the village of Ashley near Altrincham in Cheshire. The Merediths (once called Ameredith, originating from a Welsh name) owned it for many generations, eventually marrying into the famous Tatton family (owners of Tatton Hall) in the 1800s. At that time Ashley Hall went to the Egertons (owners of Tatton) as part of the marriage dowry.
Ashley Hall was quite a significant place, a lot of history to do with it especially when various characters used it as a meeting place to decide which side to go on at the beginning of the Jacobite Wars.
Unfortunately it was demolished in 1954. I'm afraid I don't know why, and I'm trying to find out. Since then other more modern buildings have been built on the site, which is a great shame as the old house was a fine old part timber framed building. There are still various bits of the estate left.
I also found a complete family tree of the Merediths online, which I have and can attach for you
Quite an illustrious family tree and lineage, I must say, - going back as related to Edward Seymore himself, no less!
I've only posted 2 of 3 of the images I found of this family tree. There is a 3rd which may be the one that includes your Judith, I will check later. I did notice her on the tree.
Hope this answers your questions.