Hi Christine,
Thank you for that information, it has helped fill in some blanks....so far I have the following on the 15 children:
1. Alphonso Henry Grimstone b. 2 Oct 1866 I knew about him, but my DOB was out - so thanks!
2. Francis William Redwood b. 11 Aug 1868 I didn't know his name, so thank you!
3. Henry Redwood (no DOB - marriage notice in n'paper, he's the 3rd son, he married Josephine Eissenhardt)
4. Vernon Charles .b 14 Apr 1874 - he was the mayor of Toowoomba QLD
5. Charles Edward b. 1876 (approx)
6. Leo Septimus b. 1880 (approx)
7. Mystery sister she went to the UK from QLD to study Opera with Vernon Charles
8. Bernadette Josephine Mary b. 1886
9. Mystery sister who married a man called Maurice McGrath
10. Mystery Brother I have found reference to a male birth in 1871 - may be Henry or someone else
11. Mystery
12. Mystery
13. Mystery
14. Mystery
15. Mystery
Of the 15 children, three had died by the time their mother Mary Elizabeth had died in Nov 1912 in Toowoomba Qld - not sure if any of them died in NZ as children. I believe (guess really) that many of the family - not all the older ones came to Australia in 1893, Mary would have been 50 so probably not having any children over here!!!
Thank you again for your help!
Cheers......Samantha