end of book for now!!!
Oh no Cathay I am really pleased, it is all so new and interesting to me.
The information about the wedding and the connection to the Ashkenazim came from a Mr. Charles Tucker at the research unit of the London Beth Din in Finchley.
I have Emmanuel's Permission for Interment 24.7.1876, it says on his grave
Mendele son of Uri would that help me at all do you think.

It is also recorded as Stranger (not a paid up synagogue member)
From what I can make out they tried to disguise the fact that they were Jewish.
Jacob (John) also had a son Emmanuel who was my. grandfather, my grandmothers family vehemently opposed the marriage and ostracized her, they in fact went out to France and married in Paris.. Thats what mum told me and I have thier marriage cert.