Yes, I know it is confusing, and I have only got this far by x-referencing all the facts but other than grandmother I think they stack up. So, Richard Bartlett's first marriage was to Annie Maria Smith (widow of Edward Smith and mother of Annie Maria) got marriage certificate and also birth cert of Annie Maria (daughter). Edward Smith was killed in Portland Prison in 1881 where he was a prison officer (backed up by death cert. and post mortem result). Anna Maria Smith (his widow) then marries Richard Bartlett in 1885 (his first marriage, her 2nd) and Annie Maria would be Richard's step-daughter then aged 10. I haven't found a record of the marriage of Richard to his step-daughter (following her mother's death in childbirth in 1890 (I have searched and searched) but have all the certificates of the children of that issue. Now whether Annie Maria then gives birth to my grandmother, Ada Smith - gives her her maiden name or perhaps she was not married to Richard at that time, or perhaps it was not her child anyway, just coincidental surname Smith in 1895.
To complicate matters still further it seems possible that Richard Bartlett had a second marriage to an Elizabeth Lewis (both in 1892 living at The Albert, Marlborough Street) when he was 28 and a widower and Elizabeth Lewis was a widow - his father, Theophilus was a witness together with Richard's brother, so it all ties in but where did wife no. 2 go and did she (go)? perhaps Richard was not free to marry his step-daughter, who knows? It seems I have proof of everything other than who exactly was my grandmother's father.
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