Poor you

I saw the Lawrence ref. The first daughter at least was registered under surname of Lawrence.
I found this family in Thornaby, York, England in 1881....can't as yet find them in the earlier censuses:
Jas. MC QUADE Head 27 b. Scotland Puddler
Mary MC QUADE Sister 25 b. Scotland
Rose MC QUADE Sister 21 b. Durham, England
John MC QUADE Brother 14 b. South Stockton, York, England Moulder (Iron)
Margaret MC QUADE Sister 11 b. South Stockton, York, England
John MC QUADE Nephew 5
Annie MC QUADE Neice 2 m South Stockton, York, England
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