Poor you  

I saw the Lawrence ref. The first daughter at least was registered under surname of Lawrence.
I found this family in Thornaby, York, England in 1881....can't as yet find them in the earlier censuses:
 Jas. MC QUADE      Head       27      b. Scotland      Puddler       
 Mary MC QUADE      Sister   25      b. Scotland             
 Rose MC QUADE      Sister   21      b. Durham, England             
 John MC QUADE      Brother 14     b. South Stockton, York, England      Moulder (Iron)       
 Margaret MC QUADE     Sister 11     b. South Stockton, York, England             
 John MC QUADE      Nephew  5                   
 Annie MC QUADE      Neice   2 m      South Stockton, York, England     
Monica