I'm really sorry to but in here, but this subject has suddenly come close to me.
My grandfather Laurence John was always told that his mother died giving birth to him in November 1881 and his father failed to register his birth in his distress. He remarried 2 years later.
A distant relative threw up the theory that Laurence was not his "mother's" child but a bastard fathered on the woman who later became his "father's" second wife. It was, as far as we’re aware, speculation on her part based on an entry on the 1891 census.
I have today received from the GRO a birth certificate for a Laurance John and yes, his mother is shown as the second wife, Clara, with an unnamed father. I know from the 1881 census that Clara was working as a servant in Suffolk to someone whose christian names were John Laurence (that may be a coincidence so I'll post no surnames in case there's descendants of his).
I'm now confused and a little saddened. Poor Clara was never able to acknowledge her son as her own, only as a stepson. The fact that Laurance was "responsible" for his "mother's" death also apparently led to a division in the family.
Legally, what is my surname? The one my grandfather used or the one he was born under? Is there any way of tracing who was his biological father? I've checked the records on A2A for paternity suits but found nothing that matches. The bastardy records mentioned here are totally new to me - what do they consist of and could they help me?