Friends of mine bought a church to convert into a house, which they did with great skill and tastefully, retaining ecclesiastical features. The churchyard was full of gravestones ... so theytidied it up, got rid of all the brambles and nettles, and have made a semi-wild garden around them, with flowers growing on all the graves. Its bright, quiet and full of bird-song ... and people can still come to see the graves, cared for and loved.