Hi Annie,
Firstly, welcome to Rootschat!

And thank you very much for posting such a useful post so early in your membership here!!!

So I suppose the best approach for those looking for photos of headstones in the Drayton and Toowoomba cemetery is as follows:
First, look up the cemetery index to get the reference for your person.
Second, check the website that Annie has given. If you find the headstone there, great! If you don't, still feel free to ask me to have a look. It may mean that they just haven't got around to photographing yours (it is a very big cemetery!), or it may mean that the headstone is illegible or missing, like some I've looked for already.

MarieC