Here's Andrew's widow....
1891: Black Callerton, NorthumberlandRef: RG12 - Piece: 4243 - Folio 132 - Pg 6
Address: Black Callerton
Head: Isabella SHIELLS 49, widow, Farmer, b High Spen Durham
Dau: Mary Lizzie SHIELLS 12, b Newburn NBU
Son: Andrew SHIELLS 8, b Newburn NBU
Plus 6 farm servants.
One of the servants occupations, reveals it's a Dairy Farm.
(Can't see son John SHEILLS age abt 13 in 1891....)
1901: Whitley, NorthumberlandRef: RG13 - Piece: 4805 - Folio: 64 - pg 22
Address: 64 Park Avenue - Whitley Dairy
Head: Isabella SHIELLS 63, widow, Farmer, b The Spen, Durham
Son: John SHIELLS 23, unm, Farmers Son, b Black Callerton
Dau: Mary E SHIELLS 21 unm, b Black Callerton
Son: ANdre SHIELLS 17, unm , Farmers Son, b Black Callerton
Plus 1 sevant, a Horseman.
hahahah! A Park Avenue adrdess - not quite the one a New Yorker might aspire too..

My eyes have - to quote Monica - given up! And I'm feeling all confused as to who to look for next

Hey, Jason - if you like and we can help - how about you go thru amd make a list of all we would like to look for now you have all this - you know: missing on Census, or just in a Census, BDM, etc.... - Then we can pick m off one at a time and see what we can tie up??
Cheers

AMBLY