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Offline LizzieW

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Re: adoption
« Reply #9 on: Friday 04 January 08 20:16 GMT (UK) »
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name of the homes unmarried mothers went too in the Manchester area or where I could find this out I would be very grateful.

Ange - There were other private places such as Doriscourt Nursing Home in Chorlton cum Hardy, which is no longer there, where girls were sent to work out helping the staff with the "normal" mothers and babies, until they had their own babies.  Those girls were usually sent there because their parents or doctor knew the matron. 

Fortunately, when I was supposed to go, there were no more vacancies for skivvies, so I stayed with a local divorced lady and her two young boys, until I had my baby.  The other difference was that after 10 days, we just went home and the babies were taken immediately by the couples who had been recommended to the matron as good adoptive parents.  For years I worried about the people who had take my baby, but fortunately, they turned out to be fine.

The other thing is that social workers were not involved, even though by 1960 they should have been, so the adoptions were all sorted out privately.  The baby was registered under my maiden name, and as far as I know the only person who can get hold of the birth certificate is the adopted person.

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Re: adoption
« Reply #10 on: Friday 23 March 12 21:11 GMT (UK) »
I was born in Doris Court in 1957..... adopted straight away.... but, i was born jewish. I met my birth mother 3 years ago but she has blotted out all memories. please get in touch

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Re: adoption
« Reply #11 on: Monday 26 March 12 15:04 BST (UK) »
Hi Shell

Who are you asking to get in touch with you?

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Re: adoption
« Reply #12 on: Monday 26 March 12 17:38 BST (UK) »
i dont know if this maybe of interest but my friend was adopted a few months after birth and when we found her birth records on line there was a number written in pen next to her name, i dont know if other adoptees are the same.

oh and she had to fight social services to get her original birth cert after turning 18, shes only 36 now.

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« Reply #13 on: Monday 26 March 12 17:58 BST (UK) »
I was adopted from birth. I applied for my adoption file when I was 18 and didn't have any problems with social services, a lovely lady even sat down with me and went through everything page by page. I guess it depends on the area!!

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Re: adoption
« Reply #14 on: Monday 26 March 12 18:07 BST (UK) »
woosorchard im pleased you got your files no problem, however there was abuse in my friends family so maybe that's why they delayed and put off and made her have counselling