She was born in 1853. I have a marriage certificate (1878) which supports this and also gives her father as John Barber, but of course no mother. There is a birth record for Eleanor Barber registered in Langport in 1853 so all in all I'm satisfied that her name and dob are correct. She and husband Walter had 5 children - Ada 1882, Louisa 1884, Beatrice 1887, Henry 1887 & Wilfred 1890. What I can't seem to find is Eleanor within a family unit on the 1861 or 1871 census records. I will probably send for her birth cert eventually, but surely there should be some record of her "early" years.
PS she is occasionally referred to as "Ellen", nor Eleanor in the 1881+ census records.