Alan,
Whilst your Hale family has no "S" - we have found the John Hale mentioned, in the 1871 Census under reference RG10 1014 Folio 90 Page 59
However his wife is shown as Elizabeth, who looks like she died in the quarter ending Sept 1872. John must have married Mary after then.
Will let you know if we find any further information for you,
Al & Al