When I was a little kid, I asked my Mom, "why do my Dad's nieces/nephews call
your Mom and Dad Aunt and Uncle " ...... my Mom replied the kind of answer you give a kid when you want to end the conversation and want them to go away ......"oh look!!!! there a puppy out in the yard ........"
A few years ago I discovered "the puppy"....nothing too sorted ........ years in therapy were
not required.......or not because of this, anyway

My father's mother is the daughter of my mother's grandfather's 1st wife who died.
I would need help figuring out the cousins removed bit!

lissa