Hi All,
Many thanks for looking for me. Perhaps I didn't explain properly, but I have all parents and census details - I just needed to find the 1901 census or marriage or death for Starling born Mattishall - I know his parents were Thos.Wm. Jarrett and Sarah Ann Whiterod, his cousin was called Starling also but born Swanton Morley.
Many thanks Wozzle for finding him in 1901, it is the wrong image (and spelling) on ancestry so I've told them about it, but have managed to see it on thegenealogist site, and it's definitely him (age transcribed as 20 but is more like 30 on the image, which would be right).
Thanks also ev for the possible marriage, with those census details I can check on it now, (it was his cousin who married Eliza Beevers)
and thanks, ricky for sorting us all out!!
Another brick wall down

Barbara