Hi Debz... yes I think they are the parents .. I did not have the marriage date ...thanks for that

Henry James born 1790 14th Nov. s/o Robert and Eleanor
Deb.. john and Harriet did have children called Robert, harriet, and Henry 
Yep ...John and Harriet's first child ...
Robert bap~22 June 1832 = Fiance Smith
Sarah
Harriett b c 1833 married ?? James had approx 28 children
William b c 1836 = Dianna Sophia Hewson (8 children)
Charlotte b c 1838 = Henry Gess (8 children)
Elizabeth b c 1841 = Edwin Orchard ( 6 children)
Christopher b c 1843 =Patience Penfold (4 children)
My Thomas = Sophia Orchard (11 children )
Alfred c 1850 =Louisa Small (7 children)
Henry c 1852 = Ocean Hughes ( 11 children)
Edward c 1853 = Rachell Holland
you probaly have this.....
Thomas James married Harriet PALMER 23RD DEC 1808 Kingsclere Hants
Could they be harriet James parents??
Thomas James and Harriet Palmer had these children;
My Harriett James b 1814 =John Pinfold
Thomas James b 1815 = Mary Jane Holland
John James c 1819
Eliza c 1825
Priscilla c 1816
Rebecca c 1830
arrgghhhhhh

deb