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Re: Am I just too touchy?
« Reply #54 on: Tuesday 23 October 07 23:05 BST (UK) »
It would seem then Gadget that I've obviously inherited too greater a quantity of the bad genes. ;D Jayson
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Re: Am I just too touchy?
« Reply #55 on: Tuesday 23 October 07 23:11 BST (UK) »
Some people make me sick  >:(

For example, about 12 months ago I contacted a woman who happened to be a member of the Sussex Family History Group (I won't name her but she knows who she is). We had a shared ancestor, so after a brief exchange of emails I sent her an entire genealogical report for my side of the family from the ancestor down to myself. I never heard a word back from her  >:(  I wrote a couple of times and got no response, and now I see she's put her tree on GenesReunited. It taught me a lesson never to divulge everything at once!

Another time I wrote an email to someone with a brief summary of how we shared an ancestor and all I got back, and I quote, was "How do you know this? ? ? ? ? ? ?"

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Re: Am I just too touchy?
« Reply #56 on: Tuesday 23 October 07 23:46 BST (UK) »
Evidently sharks have legs too, rich?! ;D Jayson
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Re: Am I just too touchy?
« Reply #57 on: Wednesday 24 October 07 00:04 BST (UK) »
Evidently sharks have legs too, rich?! ;D Jayson

Her name was Wyn. I'll say no more.  :P
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Re: Am I just too touchy?
« Reply #58 on: Wednesday 24 October 07 00:09 BST (UK) »
  Hi, I just want to add my tuppence worth, I would like to say a very BIG thank you to all of you who take  time to answer other people's requests, and know this, you are all very much appreciated (if not by all)  by the majority.  you  do a splendid job and make this site what it is.. Three Cheers, Dolly...
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Re: Am I just too touchy?
« Reply #59 on: Friday 26 October 07 19:02 BST (UK) »
Boutcha from Norn Iron and Céad Mile Fáilte from Ireland,

This green hat that I wore for a while on St Patrick's Day has gone to my head 8)


Another time I wrote an email to someone with a brief summary of how we shared an ancestor and all I got back, and I quote, was "How do you know this? ? ? ? ? ? ?"

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Rich, did you send a five word reply ... Research and friends at RootsChat ???

Cheers, Go raibh maith agaibh, Thank you, Tusen takk ... and many more expressions of thanks are much the same. It's the thought that counts no matter how much is said along with the acknowledgement of appeciation that you have done your best to give some assistance.

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Re: Am I just too touchy?
« Reply #60 on: Friday 26 October 07 19:29 BST (UK) »
obvs a bit more than cheers would be preferable but some ppl dont express themselves clearly cant find the words to say and dont hv the time. (maybe they were having a bad day)
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Re: Am I just too touchy?
« Reply #61 on: Friday 26 October 07 19:38 BST (UK) »
Last night I spent at least an hour searching the Scottish census for someone (whom I won't name) who'd posted a message.   I was successful - noted the entries and then posted a reply.

Today I see a response - just one word 'Cheers'.   Having used up my time, using resources that I subscribe too for a 'Cheers' makes me so mad.   One things for sure - I won't help that person again.

I often help people if I can and have always received a suitable thank you which makes it worthwhile.    But a 'cheers'!   Am I just being oversensitive?

Annette       

Annette,

I've been thinking ... maybe the people who say "Cheers" enjoy a drink.

They're saying "Cheers" now and whenever they have the pleasure of meeting you they'll buy you a drink for being so helpful. Ah well ... live in hope.

Christopher

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Re: Am I just too touchy?
« Reply #62 on: Friday 26 October 07 21:05 BST (UK) »

I've been thinking ... maybe the people who say "Cheers" enjoy a drink.

They're saying "Cheers" now and whenever they have the pleasure of meeting you they'll buy you a drink for being so helpful. Ah well ... live in hope.

Christopher

Lol like it!

Willow x
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