Hello Valda,
Thank you for taking an interest in this topic.
I have been researching this family for some time now, and it has been a very slow process! The family of Richard and Mary Merritt (nee Williams) are as follows:-
Richard b.1827 d.1828
Henry b.1828 poss. marr. Amy Tapley Clapham Holy Trinity 1848
Mary Ann b.1830
Sarah Ann b.1835 poss. marr. 1853 to a Boulton/Fox/Pauling
George b.1839
Emma b.1841 poss. d. 1851
Martha Ann 1842 married James Hussey 1861
Charles b.1843
These were on the IGI. They were all children of Richard and MARY.
The problem is I can't find them on the census. The nearest is the Richard, married to Elize, who is a carpenter in 1841 and on 1851 a chair maker - on the marriage certificate of Charles his occupation is Chair maker - but as you point out there are no signs of the earlier children.
I wondered if Mary was calling herself Elizabeth/Eliza.
I, too, wondered if Richard had remarried, but on IGI the last 4 children were born to Richard and MARY but the childrens names and DOB are about right on the 1851. I know that the IGI is not always correct.
I had found a poss. death for Mary in Lambeth in Jun Q 1855 and one Mary Ann Jun Q 1868 age 62 yrs (babt 1806). Thanks for the one in Newington - I had not checked that one.
I will keep looking through the census etc. and one day I will get there!
I would like to get the baptism and marriage records for Lambeth St. Mary, only seen the burials on ESFHS site on CD - unless someone out there knows different......!
Regards Escargot