Hi again folks
I know I said a few listings back, ""Nesbitt family, which by the way,, when I come back, I will post a little story about how I came across all of them,, quite a bit of a 'good luck story'' here."", so decided I will tell you, this is not really any facts and figures here, but just a good luck story that is quite interesting.
I was living in Canberra, Australia, a number of years back, actually over 15 years ago now, and was at the National Library one day, trying to get a hold and understanding regarding the Balli Caldwell family. I had seen a microfich index that indicated that Marion Caldwell had married a NESBITT, so wanted to check the corresponding index for Mr Nesbitt's Christian names. Went to the draws, found the fiche missing, so under my breath said something along the lines of ' darn, blast' a person standing next to me said,, whats wrong,, ( I had said it very softly, so she must have had good hearing) Anyway I told her that the 'N' fiche were missing and said I was looking for a Nesbitt family. Another man heard me telling her this, he said " do you know that there is a Nesbit/Nesbitt and Nessbit Society" to which I answered no. He said,, I will give you their contact details, perhaps you might like to write to them. I of course said thanks, and placed the address into the back of my book. I must admit that I had no intention of making contact with this Society, however, with a time lapse of about 20 weeks, I found the slip of paper again and figured, nothing ventured, nothing gained. Thank goodness I had not written to them before, and had left it until that date, as a coincidence was about to happen.
I wrote and said,,, I have a Marion Caldwell who apparently married a Mr Nesbitt, that I knew nothing at all about the family, whether they had children or not, but that Marion had been born in New Zealand, and the family had gone back to Australia and that she had married this man.
Meanwhile, on the very same day, in the same bundle of letters, a man who lives in Sydney wrote to the Society, and said, my Grandfather John Henry Nesbitt married a lady called Marion Caldwell. Marion was born in New Zealand, but she married my grandfather in Melbourne. Are you able to help me at all. Do any of your members relate to this family at all.
So what about that for a coincidence, his letter, and my letter, arrived in the same bundle of mail, so of course the person opening the mail put two and two together, and put us in touch. I have always thought, had I written to the Society as soon as I got the address, some 20 weeks before hand,, then perhaps the connection would never have been made. And of course, had I not originally cursed under my breath while searching at the National Library, and have someone overhear me, then again, the connection would never have been made, because I sure as heck had never heard of any Nesbit/Nesbitt and Nessbit Society ha ha!!!!
So that is my good luck story, a good one I think
Aumarire