I've been trying to sort things out in my own mind so I made a timeline (e.&o.e.) of what I think might be relevant facts for Jane Elizabeth HEASMAN later WILKINSON later HARPER, died as WILKINSON. Might as well post it ...
There are many loose ends (absence of bdm records etc) yet to be tied up ...
1838 Jane Elizabeth HEASMAN b in London, parents William HEASMAN (b ca 1817) & Jane Elizabeth AYLMORE (b ca 1819)
1841 Family migrates to Victoria
1843-1851 Siblings of Jane are baptized in Victoria
1855 William HEASMAN is made bankrupt in NSW
1855 ca June; William HEASMAN said to have died (i.e. ca 16 months before Oct 1856 admission of children to the Orphan School). Or was this an untruth because he was on the run from his creditors and the police?
1856 Jane marries Charles WILKINSON in NSW
1856 October; Application (stating William HEASMAN has been dead for ca 16 months and mother Jane is infirm and no longer able to care for them) made for admission to the Orphan School, NSW of siblings of Jane’s (William 9, Anne 8, Rachel 6, Amelia 4). Ann and Rachel admitted.
1858 Male WILKINSON b & d as infant, Chippendale, NSW
1859 Jane’s siblings Ann & Rachel released from the Orphan School into her care.
1860 Female WILKINSON b & d as infant, Chippendale, NSW
1860 May; W HEASMAN is on a passenger list from Melbourne to Sydney; is this William (back from the dead?) ?
1861 Male WILKINSON b Chippendale, NSW
1862 Walter WILKINSON, 11 months born Sydney, dies 1862 Vic
1862 One of Jane’s siblings (Annie) marries in Victoria
1863 One of Jane’s siblings (Mary Ann) marries in Victoria
1864 Nameless child WILKINSON b Redfern, NSW
1865 One of Jane’s siblings (Rachel) marries in Victoria
1867 Laura WILKINSON b Emerald Hill, Vic
1868 Charles WILKINSON, Jane’s husband dies St Kilda, Vic (Jane’s children listed as Rachael 11, Walter dead, Thomas Frances 4(?), Florence 1.
1870 Jane Elizabeth WILKINSON (b London) m William Thomas HARPER (b Birmingham) in Victoria
1870 Apr; Jane Elizabeth HARPER, wife of William Thomas HARPER Sydney, makes application re estate of Charles WILKINSON (says he died leaving her with 5 children)
1870 Sept; Jane’s children Frances 6 and Florence 3 admitted to the Orphan School, NSW (father dead, mother unable to support)
1871 A William Thomas HARPER, born Birm (remember, Birmingham was the birthplace of the groom of this name at his 1869 marriage to Jane WILKINSON), age 26, dies in Victoria
1871 One of Jane’s siblings (Amelia) marries in Victoria
1872 Jan; Florence released to mother’s care
1873 Jan; Florence 5 ½ re-admitted (mother has another child to support)
1874 July; Frances released to mother’s care
1878 One of Jane’s siblings (William) marries in NSW
1903 Jane WILKINSON on the Electoral Roll in Chippendale
1919 Jane Elizabeth WILKINSON dies Granville, NSW
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A related puzzle.
Later note: *1869, Vic, Jane Elizabeth HEASMAN (as HEANNAN) b London m Peter ANDERSON (as HENDERSON) b Norway
*1870 April, George HEASMAN, parents said to be William HEASMAN & Jane Elizabeth AYLMORE, dies Emerald Hill, Vic, age 4, said to have been born in Melbourne, Vic, informant Peder ANDERSEN – A Friend, Emerald Hill.
Were William HEASMAN & Jane Elizabeth AYLMORE really the parents of George?
Later note: It has been suggested that George might really have been George BALLI, son of John BALLI & Mary Ann HEASMAN (indexed as Marion ESMOND), b Dayl, 1865 #14820
*1871 March, Elizabeth ANDERSON, parents Peter ANDERSON & Jane Elizabeth AYLMORE (cert has ANDERSON formerly HEASMAN nee AYLMORE), born Coll, Vic.
*1871 September, Amelia HEASMAN marries; witnesses are Peter and JE ANDERSON.
Jane Elizabeth (AYLMORE) HEASMAN was b ca 1819 so would have been ca 52 in 1871 - not impossible but unlikely. Is something fishy going on?
JAP