JulieC,
C1841 828/2 58-9 Joseph=Ironmonger 15 yrs (probably rounded)
C1851 2410-161-46 Joseph L = Ironmonger 27 yrs.
C1861 3842-37-8 Margaret categorised "Married", no JLR
C1871 5120-18-30 Margaret categorised as "W" for widow. Last child = Sarah A 3yrs.
C1881 508-15-23 JLR number three, 7 yrs , son of John G/Margaret Reed
C1891 JLR 3= 17
C1901 JLR3=27, JLR4=2.
Although marriage of JLR3/Mary Bartlett Stott was registered with South Shields Reg District Dec Qtr 1896, their three children ( by C1901) were registered with Tynemouth Reg District, JuneQ 97, DecQ 1898, DecQ 1900.
Have you eliminated the Joseph Reed death registration.... sorry I am on "foreign" PC... likely to lose this info...
Michael Dixon