Hi Lorraine
We do have Honora in our tree.
I also think that James died around 1881 (after the Census). He is living with his sister Emma Chamberlain, which seems a little strange, with his wife and child living elsewhere. In 1891, one of Mary’s adopted children is Sarah Chamberlain, the daughter of Emma. She does seem to be a Victorian foster mother. By the way, I think Betsy Holden is an adopted daughter (the enumerator faced with two adopted children wrote ‘adopted’ in one box and ‘daughter’ in the one below saving ink, time and the challenge of fitting big words into small boxes!
I’ve sent our email address by PM.
Cheers,
Susan & Nigel