Just to confirm the marriage above - this is from Lancs BMD
Lancashire Marriage indexes for the years: 1849
WHITTLE Robert WILDING Margaret Preston Register Office or Registrar Attended Preston PRESTON/13/95
also on same grave it says
Robert (husband of Elizabeth ashcroft) died 1923 40 yrs do you think he could be a whittle or an ashcroft ?
Presume you mean did a Whittle female marry an Ashcroft hence Roberts surname
Firstly - this may be a possible marriage for Robert & Elizabeth
Lancashire Marriage indexes for the years: 1908
ASHCROFT Robert CHAMBERS Elizabeth Preston, St Mary Preston 233/5/287
This is another possibility for Roberts parents
Lancashire Marriage indexes for the years: 1877
ASHCROFT Daniel WHITTLE Mary Elizabeth Preston, St John Preston 229/37/14
Per IGI
DANIEL ASHCROFT / MARY ELIZABETH WHITTLE
Marriage: 23 DEC 1877 Saint John Preston