Just came to mind something I thought I would share.
I am fixing up an old box for my post card collection, decorating it with decoupage etc. Not a very good job, in fact it looks terrible.
My 29 year old son was over, and agreed that it was absolutely terrible (nothing like the truth).
I told him that I am leaving it to him in my will

After that I brought out my post card collection to show his girlfriend, pointing out that this one cost this amount, and that one is worth this amount. Explaining that basically the whole collection could be worth quite a bit.
29 year old son pops up and says, " Ahhh, so the post cards come with the box do they?"
Seems to me he is now a lot happier to accept my gift.
Margaret