I too know what you mean. I spent quite a while trying to find a ggrandfather's grave in a very remote, sparsely settled part of Queensland. When I did find it, and I and two cousins travelled a long way to visit it, everything seemed to be made very easy for us on the trip, our way was smoothed. When we reached the lonely bush grave, I had the strong sensation that the old man was very pleased that we had made the effort to come and visit him!
I took some earth from his grave to mix into his wife's grave only a couple of kilometres from where I live. OK, OK, I'm as mad as a cut snake, I admit it!

MarieC