Have you people thought of going into the detective business?
I am the Holly of whom you speak.

Ada turned out to be Benjamin Joyce's sister, at least he HAD a sister named Ada. I think I was misinformed there.
Yes Catharine did a stint as a governess, but the family refered to the 'dancing' connection fairly often. I think they were more than a bit scandalized. The HILLS were a huge family and many of the children left home young.
Now to the Lidster connection - I was wrong about ow the Collier got in there - but I knew they were ours....
Thomas Lidster from Seamer married Isabella Cooke UMPLEBY. Isabella was the niece of Mary UMPLEBY who married Monkman PEACOCK.
Thomas and Isabella's daughter Elizabeth Umpleby LIDSTER (wrongly reported as Uppleby on the birth reg Jun 1848) married Pearson COLLIER, and their daughter Isabella is the Isabella Collier living with Thomas and Ann (the former housekeeper, Ann WHITE) in 1881.
Now here's another one ... but maybe it should rightly go on the North Riding board...
In 1871, Thomas was living in Seamer, with Ann (38), stepson Henry White (12) and George Lidster, grandson age 1.
George was born in Scarbro. His birth was reg Sep 1869. If he is grandson - then Thomas and Isabella had a son. I can find no record yet of a son. Here are the census reports:
1841 Thomas is at home (age 20) with his father Thomas in Seamer.
1851 Seamer Dist 13
Thomas Lidster 31
Isabella Cooke 28
Jane Ann 6
Elizabeth 2 (birth reg Jun 1848)
Jane Umpleby 21 sis in law
all born in Seamer (Seamer registered in Scarbro)
Isabella Cooke Umplelby LIDTSER death reg Scarbro 1857
1861 Seamer Dist 7
Thomas LIDSTER 40
Elizabeth 12
Sushanna 8 (Susanna birth reg Dec 1851)
Emily 7 (birth reg Jun 1853)
Ann White 28 housekeeper b Thornton
Henry White 3 boarder b Falsgrave
all born Seamer except Ann and Henry
1871 Seamer Dist 7
Thomas LIDSTER 51
Ann 38
Henry WHITE 12 stepson
George LIDSTER 1 - grandson (birth reg Sep 1869 Scarbro)
1881 Seamer
Thomas LIDTSER 61 (mistranscribed as 68)
Ann 48
Henry White 22
Isabella COLLIER 4 Scarbro (Isabella Cook Umpleby COLLIER birth reg Dec 1876)
Thomas LIDSTER death reg Sep 1889 Scarbro
1891
Isabella is in service with the Robinsons as previosuly reported (age 14)
Seamer (on Main Street)
Ann
George
So ... did Thomas and Isabella have a son that I can't find any records of, or was George born to one of the girls' out of wedlock - anyone know the naming protocol's of illegitmate children then?
Thanks again
Rupie