Can I have my two cents here?
If I see someone asking for a lookup on a free site, I will gently direct them to the site to look for themselves. If someone was asking for a lookup on a pay site for which I had a sub, I would not hesitate in looking. I don't think we can or should ever judge the situation of another person. For example, for myself I don't have enough people left to look for to make subs to most pay sites worthwhile. If I find something else to look for, I'll ask my kind Rootschatter friends who have offered, but it won't be enough to be a real imposition (hopefully!!!)
I am now looking pre civil registration in England, and in other countries which are not easy!
Several years ago, I was the very grateful recipient of help from a Rootschatter with a sub who went far beyond the call of duty! She was incredibly generous and I think this is the spirit of Rootschat.
I constantly trawl the general boards to see if there is a question I can answer, and do lookups in the local cemetery for Rootschatters. I don't mind answering simple queries which have been answered before, if the person is a beginner. I remember what it was like when I was a beginner. I do all this freely and gladly, and in gratitude for the help I have received!
MarieC