So far neither a marriage or a birth of a james Carlile (various spellings) or a James McDowall
On the 1861 he appears to be with his other grandparents at
Bells, Wynd, Creetown 873 Ed 6 page 16
James Carlyle, 63, granite Quarry worker*, b. Ireland
Ann, 63, wife, b. Ireland
Peter, 24, son, granite quarry worker, b. Ireland
Daniel, 21, son, granite quarry worker, b. Ireland
James, 11, granson, scholar, b. Creetown
It might be worth checking the 1841 to check the McDowall family - a daughter might be identified. Also, as the Carlile family where from ireland, they might be Roman Catholic and any marriage, baptism would not appear in the easily available records.
I'll keep looking around.
Gadget
* see also my photo of the Creetown Granite monument on this board
