Yazzie,
I think Jenn from the Australian board has tried to tell you this, but I will say it again.
If you would like help from other R chatters, you need to give all you know right at the beginning, not a bit later when they have already done searches.
Start at the beginning and think what you can say about ...parents, birth dates, places, others in the family, occupations, when last heard of . Anything at all
That way we have more chance of finding your people which will be fun for you and us too.
Sue