Hello Kay
Welcome to Rootschat

According to their profiles, Timbee made one post and was last online her in 2007 and John, the original poster, hasn't been online here since 2008 but this isn't his line, its for a friend.
If they have changed their email addresses or switched off notifications they won't know, unfortunately, that you have joined in.
I suggest you wait and see what the weekend may bring, fingers crossed.
The marriage for Mary Elizabeth Bradnam & Frederick James William can be found on the freebmd site (freebmd.rootsweb.org no www required) at Lewisham registration district in 1899.
As to sources, the LMA London dataset has only been available online since September. The entry isn't on the LMA dataset meaning they married in a church that has not deposited its registers at the LMA, the church isn't Anglican (the dataset only includes deposited Anglican registers not Catholic, Methodist etc), they married in a register office, synagogue or Friends Meeting House, or the record hasn't been transcribed yet, the project is still ongoing.
Dawn
(Co-moderator for London & Middlesex)